Meeting and dating an attractive, experienced woman who’s older than you are can be a real treat!
If you’re a guy looking to have a good time with women, and you’ve been focusing on the”younger generation”of females out there, you might be surprised to find that you’re actually missing out on a LOT of great potential relationships.
In these modern times, older women are becoming more and more an option for guys looking to enter the dating scene. Whether the girl is a couple years older than you, or a full blown”cougar”looking for a hot stud, you have some great, un-tapped options.
See, there are lots of very”career-focused”women out there nowadays who have achieved some level of success with their businesses and are now looking to find love. There are also women who have gotten divorces and now find themselves open to meeting new men. Whatever the case, the number of available older women is growing.
And for the typical man who’s open to dealing with more”experienced”women, this couldn’t be better news.
So here’s the real question…
Are you interested in dating a woman who’s older than you are?
Do you find older women more attractive than their younger counterparts?
Well, my friend, you are not alone!
Older women are much more”mature”and experienced in the ways of love. They’ve usually had a lot of practice dealing with men, and know their way around the bedroom.
They can also be MUCH easier to deal with than younger women, who can tend to be a little”high maintenance.”
If you’re a man in your mid-to-late 20s who’s mostly been with women in their late teens and early 20s, dating a woman in her 40s can be a real treat for you!
They tend to be more mature and less selfish – sexually, and in just about every other way – than the women you’re used to dating. And if you’re not looking for anything serious, the chances are higher that they’re not either, if they’re just past child-bearing age.
In that way, they’re kind of like a lot of women in their mid-20s and younger, who don’t feel compelled to start a family in the way that single women who’ve hit 28 or 29 do. By the time a single woman reaches that age range, she’s more likely to feel that now’s the time to act if she’s ever going to have children.
That’s because she’s not getting any younger, and she feels less attractive than she was when she was in her early 20s. In her mind, it’s only going to get harder to find a great man she can settle down with.
(By the way, a lot of women at this stage make a mistake that a lot of men make their entire lives: they get desperate. Some women actually repel men because of their desire to get into a serious relationship sooner than the man is comfortable with. And a lot of women at this stage will settle for a man who they’re not compatible with, but who will end up fulfilling their need to have a family.)
So how can you start meeting older women?
The first place I’d start looking to meet older women is on the Internet.
Yes, it’s true. I didn’t stutter. I’d say that 90% of the older women you’d like to meet are online.
Understand that many single, older women either have kids or work (or both).
This means that they don’t really have time to go to”traditional”places to meet men, like bars or clubs.
So hitting up websites like Match. com, eHarmony, and even MySpace can be a great way to meet these older women, since they tend to use these sites often.
Other good ways of meeting older women are to go to places you’d know to find them! So avoid that trendy bar or club, because you’d usually find these women at more laid back places.
Coffee shops in the morning and afternoon are good places to meet older women, simply because there are the places women stop on their way to and from work.
You can also meet older women just going throughout your day – be it at lunch, at the mall, shopping for groceries, or whatever it may be.
But there are problems with dating older women. You may not be as mature as she is, which can be a problem for both of you. And the age difference can become rather awkward should you decide to get married: If there’s a 15-year age difference between you, then she’ll be 50 when you’re 35!
But that’s not to say that you shouldn’t meet and date an older woman. It can be a great experience for you, if you’re aware of the potential issues that can arise in the relationship.
Honestly, the art of meeting and dating older women could fill a book, and unfortunately, I just don’t have the time to go as much into detail with this as I would like.
So if you’re interested in learning more about how to meet and date older women (or just women in general), then I would highly recommend you sign up for my free How To Meet Women Crash Course.
No where else on the Internet will you find such a detailed and comprehensive resource – for free, no less – on how to meet and date the women of your dreams.
I will show you all the secrets you need to know on how to overcome your anxiety of approaching women, and how to not get rejected – EVER – so you can actually have FUN meeting and dating women instead of feeling like its a chore.